The dividend would be clubbed in your income and hence would be taxed as per your tax bracket. Same goes for capital gain income.
It's better to show it as loan.
That would be personal expense and wont get cut from anyone's income.
Yes she can and it's will be personal use so it won't be that important to tax department unless you do a huge transaction.
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